Straight from the horse's mouth...

So many people have said so many things about me in my 31 years on this earth. Until you actually know me (and few people do) you will always make your assumptions. So read this blog, and you might actually learn a few things about me. (If you have a certain level of intellect) Meaning, you must be able to analytically reason and have logical reasoning because I will not give you everything about me face value. Ok I've probably already lost a few people. I don't have to be anything for anybody. I just have to be somebody to Jesus Christ. And you know something? I already am!! So what's been said about me? Oh I have a pretty good idea. She doesn't clean up. She's air headed. She has two kids and no man. She doesn't cook. The list goes on and on. During my growth period, I have met several women who have tried to become something to someone. But gosh, I have learned that if you changed everything about yourself, you will be a million people in a lifetime!! How to fix it? Love who God made you!! I mean some people like Pepsi. Some people like Coke. Don't start liking Coke because another person say Ugh!! Pepsi is nasty!! Embrace your likes and dislikes. Embrace your weaknesses! Love them. It doesn't matter what another person thinks!! Trust me. They are unimportant at the end of the day. Trust me!! (And a little secret) People who sit around and talk about you negatively ALL the time are really obsessed with you. And they talk about you and bring you down because that's the only way to make them feel important!! Last statement: Go get some confidence!! I wish I could sell some to you. Right now I'm working on a way to increase a woman's confidence, and hopefully bring the Lady back.